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Shy Bi Girls & Guys

I’m usually a little leery about women who confess that they’re bi-curious. I feel that many of them are supposedly so inclined out of a desire to appear more attractive to men. I recently encountered a girl (forgot her name, damn me) who told me she was curious about being with a woman. Curious about these women myself, I ran a search on bi-curious women, and was pleasantly surprised by the site at the top of the list.

From the ShyBi-Girls front page:

We’d like to think you have just found one the best sites dedicated to Bi, and Bi-curious women from all over the world ! Our goal is to provide a non-threatening, safe and sleaze-free forum just for bi and bicurious girls exploring their bisexuality . You will be able to ask questions, have discussions, post pictures, read about others bi experiences and of course, perhaps meet women in your area.

For once, it’s not a porn site featuring threesomes. Which is great for women who are looking for information about bisexuality. It can be frustrating, wading through pornography for something you know is there, but is almost too deeply buried to be found. One of the things I liked most about this site is how they act to keep “undesirables” out. There’s an open chat on Thursdays, and for those with fifty forum posts or more. I haven’t yet signed up for an account, but I plan to do so today. I’m not struggling with my bisexuality, but I remember how difficult it was when I was a teenager, and I’ve seen up close what it can do to adult women who are trying to come to terms with their sexual identity. Quite a few people helped me come out; I’m not entirely sure I could have done it on my own. Now it’s time to pay it forward.

This is a free site, and there’s a brother site for guys that has personals and a forum for open discussions: Shy Bi Guys.


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6 thoughts on “Shy Bi Girls & Guys

  1. Nina Davis says:

    Hello. I’m one of the newest members at Shy Bi Girls. I’m quite fond of it, there. You really should join. The women there are nice so far.

  2. niroc says:

    Hey,
    I was just browsing the web for information or anything about bisexuality that made sense, and I ended up here, at your blog. It was refreshing to get away from all the educational nonsense and get a real person’s opinion for once. Thank you for your honesty, thank you for not caring about boxes and names, thank you for actually making sense. I can actually relate to what you’re saying and it’s good to know I’m not the only one out there who thinks this way.
    So thanks. You’ve been inspirational.

  3. Thanks for the compliment, Niroc. I’ve had a difficult time myself finding other blogs of bisexuals, ones that don’t just deal with sex. I think the more of us that speak up, the less bisexuals as a whole are seen as just another gay stereotype.

    And thank you, too, Nina! I’ve joined, and plan to make the most of it.

  4. Nina Davis says:

    You’re welcome, Jenna. I love your name, btw. 🙂

    I was pleasantly suprised to discover the Shybi community. There is *absolutely* nothing that women are alone on for that website/forum. One will find, that at least one person (or more) will have the same problem or life choice or whatever as they do. Great folks.

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